Elder Care Resources

Caring for aging parents or loved ones comes with practical decisions. Safety at home. Medical planning. Understanding treatment preferences. Knowing what documents matter.

This page provides straightforward tools to help you think through those steps.

These resources are educational and meant to guide conversations with your family and your physician.

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Home Safety Checklist

Falls are one of the most common causes of injury in older adults.

This checklist covers:

  • Bathroom safety, grab bars, non slip mats

  • Kitchen accessibility and stove safety

  • Bedroom lighting and accessibility

  • Hallways, stairs, and rug hazards

  • Smoke and carbon monoxide detectors

Small environmental changes reduce risk and improve independence.

Tompkins County Elder Care Resource Guide

This guide compiles local services in one place, including:

  • Tompkins County Office for the Aging

  • In home care agencies and private care managers

  • Grief counseling and support groups

  • Transportation options such as Gadabout

  • End of life support including Hospicare

  • Durable medical equipment loans

  • Nutritional support like Meals on Wheels

  • Senior housing options in Ithaca

Having these contacts available before a crisis makes decisions easier.

MOLST, Medical Orders for Life Sustaining Treatment

The MOLST form is a New York State medical order used for individuals with advanced illness or those who want clear documentation of life sustaining treatment preferences MOLST.

It addresses:

  • CPR or Do Not Resuscitate orders

  • Intubation and mechanical ventilation

  • Hospital transfer preferences

  • Feeding tubes, IV fluids, antibiotics, dialysis

A MOLST must be completed with a physician, nurse practitioner, or physician assistant. It becomes a medical order that emergency services and hospitals are required to follow.

If you are considering completing a MOLST, schedule a visit to review your health status and goals of care first.